Listening to you this evening reminded me of attending my paternal grandfather’s funeral in Southampton, circa 1985. He was firstly a wheelwright, served at Gallipolli in WW1, had a business in Oldham for the rest of his life – something to do with cars and engineering. His funeral was a surprise – swathed in peach coloured satin! Totally inappropriate and somehow managed to completely take away his identity! They could have done better I think.